solo dating made simple.
Date Yourself by Design is a high-touch, done-for-you solo date planning experience for women who want to date themselves with intention, confidence, and ease. This isn’t a list of generic ideas that you could just Google.
This is you having a personal solo date advisor & coach who does all the research, planning, and legwork for you to curate meaningful solo dates that align with your personality, budget, interests, and lifestyle in your city or nearby cities. You don’t have to search for a thing. You don’t have to overthink. Nor do you have to wonder if you’re “doing things right.”
All you have to do is show up for yourself, girl.
how it works:
STEP ONE: You Choose Your Plan
Select either the 3 month or 6 month experience.
STEP THREE: I do the Research + Planning
SOS finds the best solo dates for you. Experiences that align with who you are and where you’re at and also where you want to be.
STEP FIVE: You Go on Your Dates
With confidence, clarity, and zero guesswork.
STEP SEVEN: Ongoing Support
Check-ins to refine, support, and celebrate your journey.
STEP TWO: You Complete the Intake Form
You’ll share your city, interests, budget, comfort level, and whether you’re open to nearby cities.
STEP FOUR: Table for Two (Zoom Session)
We meet virtually to walk through your personalized Solo Date Plan Brief together.
STEP SIX: You take the time to reflect pre and post solo date
Reflection is where the growth happens. You’ll pause before and after each solo date to check in with yourself, build self-trust, and move forward with more clarity and confidence.
table for two
Table for Two is our private Google Meets session where we sit down and walk through your curated solo date plan together once it has been completed.
This is where everything clicks.
We’ll talk through:
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Why each date was chosen for you
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How to approach your solo dates with intention
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What to expect emotionally (especially if you’re new)
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How to make each date feel nourishing and aligned
Think of it as your reservation with yourself and I'm just there to guide you.
Each experience (3 month or 6 months) include monthly table for two sessions (at the end of the month) where we check in to see how you're feeling about your solo dates, to discuss any obstacles, celebrate wins, and see how you're feeling about you upcoming solo dates.
who it's for:
Date Yourself by Design is for you if:
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You’re new to solo dating and don’t know where to start
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You want to spend quality time with yourself but feel awkward, anxious, or unsure
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You’ve outgrown waiting on friends, partners, or “the right moment”
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You want to break patterns of codependency and build confidence being alone
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You’ve solo dated before but want it to feel more intentional, elevated, and aligned
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You crave structure, support, and someone to guide you without judgment
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You want solo dates that feel nourishing, not forced or performative
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You want to date yourself but unsure on how to find things to do
This is solo date planning, done for you. Whether this is your first solo date or your fiftieth, this experience meets you exactly where you are without you having to do any of the research.
the difference:
With Date Yourself by Design, I transform from your solo date plug to your solo date coach & advisor.
Someone who:
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Learns you through a detailed intake form & through connecting over our table for two zoom calls
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Researches your city like a local insider
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Curates experiences that match your energy and comfort level
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Helps you feel held, guided, and excited, not overwhelmed
why it works:
Solo dating isn’t just about going places alone.
It’s about:
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Learning to enjoy your own company
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Trusting yourself
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Building confidence without external validation
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Creating a life you don’t need a plus-one to enjoy
This experience removes the fear, the overthinking, and the “am I doing this right?” spiral and replaces it with support, intention, and ease.
