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Smitten Over Self is a safe space dedicated to helping women build a deeper, more intentional relationship with themselves. Through the art of solo dates, I put you on to a new way of living where you learn how to be your own plus one, set the standard for your life, and fall for yourself in the process.
From unique solo date ideas and guidance to intentional experiences, I show you how to take yourself out, enjoy your own company, and stop waiting on others to live your life. This isn’t about isolation, girl. It’s about showing up for yourself and building self trust and confidence so you can move through life on your own terms.
WHO SOS SERVES
Smitten Over Self is for the woman who is:
Whether you’re new to solo dates or already on your self-love journey, Smitten Over Self meets you where you are and supports you as you continue choosing yourself with care
Navigating singlehood and craving a more grounded, confident, and fulfilled life on your own.
Desiring intentional time with yourself but unsure where to begin.
Wanting a deeper relationship with yourself and ready to truly learn how to enjoy your own company & find solace in your solitude.
Healing, rediscovering who you are, and coming back home to yourself.
Wanting to romanticize your everyday life and create meaningful moments alone.
Learning how to slow down, soften, and prioritize yourself without guilt.
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Custom solo date plans curated just for you. I do all the planning for you so you can simply show up to your solo dates and enjoy.
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A monthly solo date experience and community for women in San Antonio, TX who want to embark on their solo date journey with support & guidance.
Date Yourself by Design is a personal solo date planning experience where I step in as your dedicated solo date advisor & coach. I curate intentional and meaningful solo dates tailored to you and handle all of the research, planning, and details so you can simply show up to your dates and enjoy.
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 finale]: Live Music 🎤🎧🎸
In the mood to listen to some live music? Check out a Sofar Sounds show. They do such a great job at curating intimate spaces that feel safe and welcoming for live music lovers.
If you’re someone who likes to know all the deets of something beforehand, this solo date may just push you outside of your comfort zone a little but a time will definitely be had.
So head over to @sofarsounds & click the link in their bio to see if they’re hosting any live shows near you.
For my SATX girlies, be sure to follow @sofarsanantonio to keep up with upcoming shows in the city! (*Some of the San Antonio SoFar shows may provide venue information well in advance instead of 2 days before).
📍 @thebeaconatmidtown
🍛 @kaiscaribbeanfusion
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E11]: Spa Day 🧖🏾♀️🧘🏾♀️
Mentally or physically exhausted? A solo spa day might get you right.
So let this be your sign to find a spa (or a speakeasy-style spa) in your city and make some time to pour back into yourself because you deserve it, girl 🤞🏾
For my SATX girlies, I can’t recommend @doorno.802 enough. It’s cute, quaint, and cozy, making it the perfect place to unwind, recharge, and exhale for a little while like I know you need to. Their sister brand @numeluxelounge is also located inside of the spa as well and offers waxings and facials.
They’re currently accepting appointments via DM for Door 802. Once you’re booked, you’ll receive the address and your secret password for entry 🤫
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E10]: Axe throwing 🎯🪓
If you’ve been feeling the urge to rip a tree out of the ground, this is actually a REALLY good solo date to try. It’s a great alternative for that urge, chile. It’s also a nice lil stress reliever and lowkey a full body workout too.
The staff walks you through everything before you begin. So even if you’ve never touched an axe before, they got you 😉
Solo date details:
🪓 Beginner friendly
💰 Price: $28.99+
(pricing may vary depending on where you go)
⏰ 1 hr sessions
🎯 Targets can be changed + axe throwing games available
📍Class Axe (1203 E Commerce St, San Antonio, TX 78205)
Save this video for your next solo date idea 🤸🏾♀️
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