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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E10]: Axe throwing 🎯🪓
If you’ve been feeling the urge to rip a tree out of the ground, this is actually a REALLY good solo date to try. It’s a great alternative for that urge, chile. It’s also a nice lil stress reliever and lowkey a full body workout too.
The staff walks you through everything before you begin. So even if you’ve never touched an axe before, they got you 😉
Solo date details:
🪓 Beginner friendly
💰 Price: $28.99+
(pricing may vary depending on where you go)
⏰ 1 hr sessions
🎯 Targets can be changed + axe throwing games available
📍Class Axe (1203 E Commerce St, San Antonio, TX 78205)
Save this video for your next solo date idea 🤸🏾♀️
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E9]: R&B Bingo 🎶🎤
There’s so much more happening here in San Antonio than we give it credit for, girl. Sometimes, we just have to look a lil harder, get out of our comfort zones, and try something new.
@upstagecomedylounge is located on the Northeast side and hosts so many different events, which means they have something for everyone. The lounge has a full bar and their R&B bingo nights has food catered for the event too.
This night, the food was catered by @southerngritfood and I tried Chef Drea’s loaded cajun bowl (cajun rice loaded with cajun shrimp). By far one of the best dishes I’ve tasted in a while 😮💨🤌🏾
R&B bingo works like regular bingo, just with r&b hits instead of letters/numbers. This is definitely a solo date night worth trying!
✨ Next R&B bingo: April 22nd
💰 $10 entry
⏰ Starts at 8pm
🎟️ www.upstagecomedylounge.net
📍 4441 Walzem Rd, San Antonio, TX 78218
Not in SATX? Not a problem, sista. Just search up “R&B Bingo” in your area to see what you find!
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E8]: Waistbeads & Sip 📿🍷
Waistbeads are a sacred symbol of self love and should be created intentionally, which was exactly what happened in this interactive & hands on class 🤌🏾✨
This is the perfect solo date for the girlies interested in waistbeads and wanting to learn how to make their own by hand too.
Follow @waistbeadsbyryshea to keep up with future classes that she has here in SATX if this is your vibe.
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E7]: Galentine Bash 💕🎀
When I say there’s always something to do in SATX, this is what I mean. This Galentine Bash was MAJOR and honestly so beautiful to witness.
There’s something special about safe spaces being created in this city. Safe spaces for us to connect, create, and truly enjoy ourselves in the present moment and these ladies provided the community with just that 🥹😍🌹
The deets:
🎀 Venue: @elsewhere.too 🎡
🍸Food, bar, live music, pop-ups, and their iconic ferris wheel
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🧿 Clay Earring Making Station: @clay2bedifferent_
✨ Handmade clay jewelry + hands-on earring workshops
🛍️ Shop earrings or attend a class to make your own pair
🗓️ Next workshop: Clay & Cocktails | March 19th | 6-8:30pm
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🕯️ DIY Car Diffuser Station: @wila.costudio
✨ Handmade luxury toxin free candles + car diffusers
🛍️ Offers candle & DIY car diffuser making experiences
🗓️ Next workshop: TBD
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🌸 Floral Arranging Bar: @bloomtherapysa
💐 Floral design studio offering custom bouquets, installs, and workshops
🌿 A different type of therapy
🗓️ Next workshop: TBD
Follow these girlies to keep up with future classes and workshops as I do highly recommend all three of them for a solo date!
💥Flash tattoos: @shay_supreme
🎈Backdrop + Balloons: @popbestieco
✨Permanent Bracelets/jewelry: @linkedvisions_
🍰Desserts/macarons: @bitememacaron
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E6]: Galentine’s Cake Swap 🍰🧁💕
This one is for all the girlies with a lil sweet tooth 🫣🤭
@jadassweetshoppe13 hosted her first cake swap event for Galentine’s here in SATX and it was such a success!
We all brought a cake to contribute and got to try so many others in the process. Every single cake that I was able to try was so yummy! Especially the strawberry heart shaped cake that Jada made (*whispers* and that nana cake!) 😍
Be sure to follow Jada to keep up with all future cake events! It’s something you definitely don’t wanna miss, girl! PS - I did not eat all of that cake, chile 😮💨😭 but I did share some with the fam.
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E5]: Permanent (promise) bracelet ✨
If you’re ever in the ATX area, be sure to add @ninaberenatobraceletbar by @ninaberenato to your itinerary. This jewelry store has something for everyone so you’ll definitely leave with something cute that you deserve!
Their permanent jewelry bar was the star of the show. They have so many chain options to choose from along with the most adorable charms that you can add to them to really personalize your permanent piece if you’d like.
You can stack your bracelets and mix & match the golds and silver too. I completely understand why Nina was voted the best hidden gem in Austin! 👏🏾
The deets:
💰Price: Chains range from $40 - $60
💫Charms: $16 each
📿4 different chain options in gold & silver (I got the goddess chain in gold)
⏰ Session took about 5-10 mins
🗓️ Walk ins available during business hours (M-S 10am-7pm. Sundays 12pm-6pm)
💻 Website: www.ninaberenato.com
📍3200 Palm Way. Unit #152, Austin, TX (inside the Domain Northside)
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E4]: Pottery in a Dome 🏺🌱
This was the best pottery workshop that I had the honor of attending so I had to put yall on to it too. Whether you have experience or not, @potdaddystudio in ATX is the perfect spot for a solo date. It’s also worth the drive if you live in SATX or another nearby city 🤸🏾♀️✨
Completely engulfed by nature, this studio welcomes wheel throwers of all levels, even those who have never touched a block of clay before in their lives. The instructors are extremely helpful (ours was @horseandsmoke) and there’s absolutely no pressure for your pieces to come out perfect.
The deets:
✨Beginner friendly
💰Price: Donation based ($50-$100 suggested)
⏰Class Length: 2 hrs
🧥Coveralls and shoes are provided
🏺You’re able to create 2-3 pieces
🗓️ To book: potdaddystudio.com
📍 100 Lake Hills Dr S, Austin, TX 78733
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E3]: Free guitar lesson 🎸🎶
Guitar center hosts free guitar lessons on Saturdays and is the perfect solo date for the girlies looking to try something new.
Trying new things, especially something that may be out of your norm is a great way to build self confidence. It also helps you learn about yourself in the process too.
Take this as your sign to book a class with @guitarcenter! You never know. You may just find a new hobby 🫣
The Deets:
✨ Free open house group guitar lessons
🫶🏾 Beginner-friendly + no experience needed
🎸 Guitars are provided for free if you don’t have your own
🎶Guitar, bass, keys, drums, and vocal lessons are also offered
💻 Book on www.guitarcenter.com/Lessons-Open-House
📍 7325 San Pedro Ave Ste 106 San Antonio, TX 78216
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E2]: Beginner pole class 💃🏾
Took my first pole class with @northpoleds 2-3 yrs ago and never went back so this was like my very first class all over again. However, this will not be my last. I am probably one of the most out of shape girlies ever. So, I’ll be utilizing my free will and taking up pole fit/choreo (and also getting back into my first love of regular choreographed dancing as well) to change that this yr.
The deets:
🤸🏾♀️ North Pole Dance Studio (recent location change)
✨ Classes: pole, fitness, and heels classes offered in all levels
🫧 Open pole hours offered (no instructor)
🙅🏾♀️ No experience necessary
💰 Use code “SMITTEN” at checkout for $10 off your class
📍 4553 N. Loop 1604 W., Suite 1215, San Antonio, TX 78249
Fit journeys aren’t a one size fit all type of thing. If you’re wanting to workout or move your body, consider taking up a dance class of some sort as an alternative if the gym isn’t cutting it. Or if you just wanna switch some things up in your routine.
Pole ain’t easy but it’s possibly one of the most liberating things I’ve tried. Definitely adding it to my ongoing list of hobbies and I can’t wait to see the progress I’ve made with it by the end of this year!
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![The Art of Solo Dates [S2 E1]: Austin’s Park 🎢
Leave it up to me to start this season off with a bang 🫣The bang being me not even making it to my original solo date and having to find something else to do on a whim 🙃
Austin’s Park definitely came in clutch and I still ended up having the best time! There’s SO much to do and you could easily spend the entire day there. From the arcade, bowling, mini golf, laser tag, darts, pool tables, and more! And yes, there’s even a bar & grill and a buffet, girl.
The deets:
⏰ Located about 15 miles North of Austin
💰All day play pass: $47.95 | Combo pass (rides, games, food + drinks: $57.95 | VIP Pass (rides, games, food, drinks, 1 game of bowling or 1 round of Putt Vegas + $10 game card)
💳 They also have individual game cards that you can reload for arcade games + rides only
💻 Visit their website for more info: austinspark.com
📍16231 IH-35 Pflugerville, TX 78660
If you’re ever in the Austin area (or if you live there), make sure you add @theofficialaustins to your list of things to do!
👚Custom tank by: @j.polk10 💕
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